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Texting is closing the parent-teen gap, to a certain extent


by kerryn le cordeur on 16 July 2010

ImageI recently wrote about Baby Boomers’ discovery of social networking sites such as Facebook, and the effect this has on Generation Y and Millennial users’ habits and social networking site preferences. But with the rapid adoption of mobile technology, online is not the only place where older generations are joining their younger counterparts.

A recent LG Mobile Phones survey reveals some interesting facts about adult texting behaviour, including that 28% of parents partake in some form of ‘sexting’, and 44% of parents admit to texting and driving. It also found that 90% of parents feel closer to their teenage children when they communicate via text message.

With over-35s dominating the social media sphere, it is perhaps not surprising that 75% of parents surveyed consider themselves to be ‘texters’ – after all, mobile technology has been around a lot longer than social media technology, which we already know they are adopting. What is surprising, however, is the fact that the older generations feel that texting brings their families closer – contradictory to what we have heard from this demographic for so long, that technology is destroying communication as we know it and creating segregation in families, as members can be physically present but using technology to be anywhere else they choose to be. Perhaps this is because of parents’ choice to partake in the technology and use it to communicate so that they are now on the inside of their children’s alternate lives, and children are more amenable to being contacted in this manner.

However, while parents may be willing to partake in texting, it is interesting that they are not acting in the way they hope their children would act when using mobile technology – evidence of this is their foray into sexting, and texting while driving. Even more interesting is that even with all the evidence right in front of them, parents are unaware, or perhaps ignorant, of their children’s mobile phone misuse. The survey showed that while 45% of teens admit to texting while driving, only 4% of parents believe that their children would do this; and the same is true of sexting, with 41% of teens admitting to taking part in this practice, but only 11% of parents thinking their children had ever done so.

What has come out of this survey is that while it is great that parents are willing to communicate with their children in a way that their children understand – with the result that relationships have the potential to improve – it is also important that if parents want their children to partake in safe behaviour on mobile and online platforms, they should begin by setting a good example themselves. And surely texting while driving and sexting can’t be good habits no matter how old you are!




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